Love Without Reservations
How to stop being scared of intimacy starts with actually naming the fear honestly. Not the surface version, being “too busy” or “not ready yet.” The real version, where closeness itself feels dangerous, even with someone you genuinely want to be near. That fear is more common than most people realize, and it’s fully possible…
Anxious attachment vs avoidant attachment is the pattern behind a familiar conversation. The “why do I keep dating the same person in different bodies” one you’ve had with a friend. One of you wants more closeness. The other wants more space. And somehow, you keep finding each other, over and over, like it’s fate instead…